TO KEEP IT GOING ON THE RIGHT TRACK -
There are a few things you need to understand and by heart if necessary -#1 DON'T EXPECT THEM TO KEEP SECRETS - Girls gossip. Period. They don't do that because they are jobless. They do that because they enjoy it. And even if she is your close friend, do not tell her your secrets under the impression that she would actually keep it safe. SHE WILL ALWAYS TELL HER BEST FRIEND FIRST. And who knows? You might end up listening to your own secret..from the person sitting next to you!
#2 SHE EXPECTS YOU TO USE SMILEYS AND SAY "AWWWW" - Using smileys or saying 'Awwww' doesn't make you look goofy. It is completely normal and human to use smileys and react that way.
#3 REMEMBER HER BIRTHDAY - ALWAYS remember her birthday or other important dates. If you cannot remember them, use a reminder. But never tell her that you're using a reminder.
#4 DON'T EXPECT HER TO LISTEN TO YOU - You don't own her. Girls do not feel comfortable around guys who dominate/restrict/tell them what to do or what not to do. You can always make suggestions or give advice.
#5 TELL HER EVERYTHING - Even if you have a diarrhea, it is mandatory to tell her. Girls love tiny details! Well, not exactly diarrhea. But still.
#6 LITTLE IS MORE - Little things mean a lot to girls. Especially stuff like, chocolates or rings.
#7 SURPRISE!! - Girls love surprises! Be it anything..they will always cherish them. Just surprise them! (But, do not scare them away!)
#8 ALWAYS KEEP THE SPOTLIGHT ON HER - When she is around, make her feel important. You don't have to shower all your love or give her all your attention. But don't be preoccupied when she is around. Girls love attention.
#9 SHE IS NO LAUGHING STOCK - Never tease her concerning her hair/ weight/ height/ voice/ language before her friends or your friends or family. Girls are highly sensitive and will be very hurt if you cross your limits.
#10 NEVER CHANGE/ ASK HER TO CHANGE - When you are friends with a girl, there will be a time when you need to draw a line. (Maybe stop being friends with her too). Not because she is a girl. Simply because you both live life on different principles. Never change or ask her to change. Doing that will only raise unnecessary conflicts.
These are a few things every girl loves!
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